How to feel good about yourself
Do you love and accept yourself? If not, this is going to create a lot of problems for you.
All your relationships will suffer and the work you are doing as well.
Nobody will be able to live with you if you can not be happy with yourself.
Many have difficulty with self-love, self-acceptance and self-conscious.
Some people think it’s not desirable. Maybe because they confuse it with egoism or self-centeredness.
Or because they were told that it is anti-social or improper.
“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.” – Oscar Wilde
What is self-love
A part of self-love is self-acceptance. This starts with our upbringing, the own appearance and personal characteristics, talents and inclinations as well as our weaknesses. But also to accept our mistakes and failures and to forgive yourself.
How to feel good about yourself
Look at these tips, they will help to live life and feel good about yourself.
Whenever you do not feel good about yourself, look at the why.
Why is it I do not feel good? Know, you deserve all good and happiness in your life.
Maybe you do affirmations and see what disturbs you?
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Make a list of good things you do every day, maybe make a little notebook for this.
If you see how much beautiful and good thinks you do, slowly you will feel much
better about yourself, even when it is first difficult for you.
How can you feel bad about yourself if you do a lot of good?
Our inner dialogue has the biggest influence on self-love, self-esteem and self-confidence.The words with which we think about ourselves and internally talk to ourselves, are powerful.
They influence our feelings and our actions. We can communicate in a loving and supportive, or in a small making and devastating way with us. To change the inner monologue for the better, needs attention, practice and patience.
It is not good to think bad about yourself, it is not healthy, don’t do this.
Do not have negative self-talk, like “I am stupid “or “I do not look good”,
change it may be first to I will learn this”, I am going to change my look “.
We are often in our own way when it comes to our happiness and success.
How many chances and opportunities are wasted just because we think bad
about ourselves and our abilities? We experience much of suffering, because
we are ourselves more an enemy than a friend.
Be with people who like and value what you do, make you happy and appreciate you.
Often family, relatives, and friends criticize, with no bad intention, but it feels
uncomfortable and if you have a bad day, it will make you feel down.
Go back to your notebook and look at the wonderful side of you.
If you do feel bad after meeting someone, try to avoid seeing them often.
Do not spent much time with people like this.
Start to learn something new, something you like to do and accomplish something
which makes you proud? Join a group of supportive people who help you to feel
loved and appreciated.
Get a new outfit for yourself or change your look? What about a new hairstyle?
You will find all is not that bad and you feel proud of yourself.
There are surely many things you can find and accomplish if you think about.
What would you love to do? If you do something you really love,
you will be good at it.
We have to live all day with ourselves, every day, all the time we are awake.
We have to be happy and appreciate to be in the company with ourselves.
If we are friendly with ourselves, we encourage and comfort ourselves.
We would forgive our faults and weaknesses.
If we are friend with ourselves, we are never alone.
Abraham Lincoln said:“When I lay down the reins of power one day and if I have lost all friends,
then at least I’ll still have a friend, and who lives deep inside me.”
It is important to learn how to feel good about yourself
Do you love and accept yourself?
If you have difficulty with this I hope this information will help you.
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