Take Responsibility for your life and create your dream
It is always the others who are to blame! These stupid politicians, the economy, the parents, spouse…. The weather is terrible as well. Everything annoys you and there is not enough money either.
Many people complain and moan about everything and point their fingers at others.
“If you realize life is 100% your responsibility there is no room for being resentful towards anyone”. -Sadhguru
But this is only an excuse for being unproductive, miserable, unhappy and stuck in life. This means also self-esteem is low and there is no confidence.
It does not mean that you have to blame yourself instead and feel guilty. Your first responsibility is to have a good attitude and keep yourself in a pleasant state. If you are miserable it will not help your self-esteem. Being successful means you, your health, relationship, and environment are in a good state. You respond mindfully to people around you rather than reacting.
Most people don’t have that willingness to break bad habits. They have a lot of excuses and they talk like victims.-Carlos Santana
Taking responsibility for yourself and your life will increase your self-worth. It is an expression of your confidence and self-esteem.
When you live consciously and are responsible, then you also think freely for yourself. You can respond to life instead of reacting.
Choose your own thoughts or give up responsibility. The second option is more convenient and that is why most people choose it.
Take responsibility and get in passion mode
In order to live successfully, happy and satisfied, you must first have the feeling of having your life under control.
It also means you are the responsible and driving force in your life because all decisions and actions have their source in you.
“All we can ever experience happens from within us.” -Sadhguru
Responsibility will take you out of the survival mode and be a victim and brings you into a creative mode.
You are responsible for your thinking and the values you want to live by
You have belief systems from your childhood. Not just from your parents. You’ve taken the belief systems of your friends, educators, teachers, coaches and all the other people you’ve dealt with. You have inherited them to a certain extent from others, but you always have the choice to change and let go of them.
“Most of your desires are not really about yourself. You just picked them up from your social surroundings.”-Sadhguru
Are your current believes helping you to live a good life? Everyone grew up in a different culture. What matters is whether these belief systems and thinking activate or paralyzes you.
The circumstances we live in are the result of our thinking and most people try to change them on the outside.
Your present situation is not a product of outside circumstances, it is you who have created this. You are the creator of your reality.
“People try to create an outwardly perfect life, but the quality of life is based on the inward.”-Sadhguru
Read Sadhguru’s book > Inner Engineering – A Yogi’s Guide to Joy
You are what you think your thoughts shape your reality !!
Every human being is responsible for what he experiences in his own life. Every human being is the creator of his own reality and his circumstances. We are able to shape our lives according to our own ideas with the help of our thoughts. Our mind is a powerful tool and we are able to choose how we think. We can look only at the negative or we can try to find the good in everything.
We can take unpleasant situations as misery or as an opportunity to improve and create better ones.
Only you can choose how you think and feel. You can choose to be happy or miserable.
“Responsibility means being able to respond to whatever situation you may face in your life.“-Sadhguru
With your thoughts, you created the present life. Therefore, all that you have experienced in your life so far, was ultimately only a product of your thoughts and imagination. All that you have ever done could only be realized because of your thoughts on the corresponding experiences and actions.
We, humans, are very powerful creators. Every one of us has the unique potential to create our life with our thoughts, emotions, and experiences. We do not have to be victims of circumstances and can take destiny into our own hands. We are able to choose which thoughts we legitimize in our minds.
“A thought does not take you anywhere, but it can set the course of your life.”-Sadhguru
It happens too often that we allow being influenced by other people or media.
The media stir up a lot of fears and spread hate among people. If you do not understand this game and you are not aware of this problem, then it will happen again and again that you manifest for yourself thoughts of suffering in your reality.
Hence, we humans are also very powerful and able to end this cycle at any time. As soon as we realize and are conscious, that we are spiritually and mentally strong human beings with infinite potential. Creating our own destiny we can make sure that nothing and nobody can bring us out of our inner balance.
“The simplest way to bring balance to your thoughts and emotions is unwavering commitment towards something.“- Sadhguru
Being responsible is powerful, by not reacting to life we are able to learn to respond to situations and can change our circumstances and live the way we want.
We are able to influence our world by our actions and bring into our reality what we like. Therefore, we not only are responsible for our own lives, by creating a peaceful and happy life we also will change the lives of people around us and our environment by being an example.
Remember: “Everything is created twice, first in the mind and then in reality.”– Robin Sharma
“The price of greatness is responsibility”. – Winston Churchill
Start today to take responsibility for yourself to become a successful human being.
Are you acting responsibly?
Do you believe after reading this, that taking responsibility will lead you to your success and dream life?
What are your thoughts?